LMAO @ the “what does MILF STAND FOR? Married..” comment

haha, if you google it I am sure you will get the idea pretty quick lol

I don’t think its a good idea for married or engaged people to be flirting with others. Specially for married for they are under a covenant and vows. If you poke a hole on vacuum sealed perishable item it will eventually rot or if you ignore preventative maintenance on your car it will eventually come to a halt. why risk a lot for something you can’t have?

LOL @ estifanos:

hewe wrote:

@ ep:

what do you think of this ep…for people in relationship, it will be someting you will not do in front of your significant other….if you have to ask yourself twice, maybe that’s something you shouldn’t do. That’s my standard at least.

I agree … i was just trying to understand the level based on this blog context..

According to wiki ..

wiki:

People flirt for a number of reasons. It is often used as a means of indicating interest and gauging the other person’s interest in a relationship. Alternatively, it may simply be a prelude to casual sex.

In other situations, it may be done simply for amusement, with no intention of developing any further relationship. This type of flirting sometimes faces disapproval from others, either because it can be misinterpreted as more serious, or it may be viewed as “cheating” if the person is already in a romantic relationship with someone else.

One can flirt in different ways, the way you dress etc.

Check this on a debate by high school students on seductive clothing in Addis.
I find it interesting how kids in high school can express themselves without insulting each other.
The all make a valid point. The introduction to the debate is funny I did not get what the guy was saying.
I just like the debate. Smart students. I think about my high school years in Addis and how things have changed now…The girls make me proud.

Enjoy.

http://www.ethiotube.net/video/3549/Debate–Cathedral-Catholic-Students-Debate-Girls-and-Seductive-Clothing

@ tsedey:
you are my inspiration…

speaking of .. ten minutes
the most shapely indian at the coffee shop…

she was looking for the decaf.. i pointed to it.. she smiled and thanked me..

then we ran into eachother… at the creamer stand… she passed me a stir and said “here you go” .. the lame me.. said thanks..

she said ” you pointed me to the coffee.. now we are even” and ran off with a smile.. the view of her running off was very nice too

@ ep:

what do you think of this ep…for people in relationship, it will be someting you will not do in front of your significant other….if you have to ask yourself twice, maybe that’s something you shouldn’t do. That’s my standard at least.

Flirting though is a generic word for an activity that has many functions isnt it? flirting isnt always romantic or sexual in nature, there is social flirting which is about charm and charisma..sexual and romantic flirting requires chemistry and attraction..the rest to me just requires charm, sense of humour, intelligence and how you communicate it to others…!

Hidaya, i couldn’t have said it any better! Thank you!!

Nolawi, u know i love you

jaamkie wrote:

ridiculous to complain about a woman flirting w/ 4 men in an hour while claiming it is ok to flirt while in a relationship!

dude… what I am saying is not dependent on eachother.. two different things.. eko.. read the article..

dude… relax honey I am not trying to say woman should avoid eye contact… minamin… this is not Kuwait… I am just saying that you shouldn’t be grinding with six different guys…

just have some self respect… flirt as much as you want..

that is all i am saying…

*changed nick… * nolawi: use real nicks… “not ayee nolawi “
Tips for women…
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Quick Eye contact and smile, is all a woman needs to do.
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Tips for men…
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I find it a turnoff & somewhat slutty to see a woman flirt with guys in the same hour but it happens …

So the men can ogle as many women as they want per hour, but god forbid if a woman makes the mistake of smiling at more than a guy upon eye contact. Slutty!

In fact I’ve always thought women should avoid telling each other jokes until all females in the group have made sure that they’ve picked the one guy they’re interested for the night/day, and executed their flirt. Otherwise, you know … the moments they laugh and glance up to make eye contact with a random dude may coincide…and as we all know, that’s so bilgina.

ungrateful

Hei musketeer datdude, not made it to China yet? me neither…no fretting you will if you really want to one day:) Mr Polo did, he must have wanted it a lot and he did lol, I dont think I do all that much, hat about you?..China is far, 2 hours longer than going to Australia and that is 24 hours already..I havent even made it to Cuba me, I think a lot of making it to Cuba, others treck to Brazil which I only think of making it to at Carnival time lol, the rest of the time it is Cuba…

“so what has kept you so busy, surely a little flirting in a london pub is a good way to tear away from the net and all things virtual. Am I right?”

I wish lol…sadly no, real tedious stuff kept me busy and away from all things virtual…flirting in pubs with alkies strangers? my dear datdude that can lead to one’s head and limbs in a bin bag months later as a news item on tv…brrr the thought of it, can you imagine head and limbs in bin bag tossed to the roadside and in the news??…brrr “shudder”…

Flirting though is a generic word for an activity that has many functions isnt it? flirting isnt always romantic or sexual in nature, there is social flirting which is about charm and charisma..sexual and romantic flirting requires chemistry and attraction..the rest to me just requires charm, sense of humour, intelligence and how you communicate it to others…

@ Hidaya:
i’m doing great musketeer btw, unlike marco polo i didn’t make it to china or have a famous last words (thank God) …so what has kept you so busy, surely a little flirting in a london pub is a good way to tear away from the net and all things virtual. Am I right?

I almost loved all your articles about gals. The hilight of this article tho is…the character who…”came up behind pinched me somewhere and whispered “if I wasn’t married…” lol

ridiculous to complain about a woman flirting w/ 4 men in an hour while claiming it is ok to flirt while in a relationship!

anyway I think it depends on your definition of “flirting”- people in relationships can become too cold/unfriendly to everyone of the opposite sex and miss friendly fleeting exchanges that are perfectly harmless. on the other hand, aggressive/sexual flirting is disrespectful. as a woman in a relationship (and with no intention of cheating), it can be difficult to go to bars/clubs without my guy because men flirt too aggressively and don’t completely back off when I say I have a boyfriend and am just out to enjoy some conversation/dancing. I wish men could appreciate the difference between a friendly non-sexual connection and flirtation that might lead somewhere else.

datdude wrote:

when does being friendly become flirting?

If I could hazard a guess:) When being “friendly” changes to being “attracted to whom you were being friendly with before, and now want to flirt with as well continue being friendly to”

Hey musketeer datdude greetings from afar:)..I see you’re back from your marco polo adventure days?..how are you mate?…..

when does being friendly become flirting?

This time I didn’t even have to look at who wrote this article, the first line gave it away
indiee, would u not mind ur girl flirting with other guys? yemAymesil neger! Almost everyone flirts but that doesn’t make it right. Haven’t u come across comments like “durye neger neww/nat, the way s/he flirts, doesn’t even look like s/he’s in a relationship” ?

besaqFlornueva wrote:

What does MILF stand for ?
Married….

MotKu!

Flornueva – Google it man… Don’t show your greenness like this. Just think of kim Basinger, Jennifer Beals, Vanessa Williams, Demi etc…

Great post anyways…

What does MILF stand for ?
Married….

I know you mentioned about married people as long as it is not off limits but in the “Tips” part the limit goes to asking out. Anyway, this could be another topic for another time
Nolawi wrote:

i thought i said married people should flirt… i have flirted with my share of married woman.. endewum they make better flirters..

i thought i said married people should flirt… i have flirted with my share of married woman.. endewum they make better flirters..

I hear you buddy..!!

You forgot to put the tips for married people … including the extent of the flirting .. lol

BTW, always nice art selection ..

EP