does anybody read comment #88 by ELIM..rx?..good one..!!

and if u need a boyfrend
e-mail me at andre_luvs_racing@hotmail.com

if 1 of u girl need to have sex e-mail me at andre_luvs_racing@hotmail.com dont be afrade ok love use

MWC I didn’t know you had it in ya! Now that was entertaining, must admit though egroche wuha azelu megeshleting and all) from all the zetche zetching,damn my kongo chama

Fikirte,

that is sweeet. no problem …..it is all good. we cool now thanks!

and don’t empower Celeb. She is already causing fire.

Endeeeee where is this coming from? Last I remember, according to YD, she said

BTW if this should ever turn out to be in one kick arse serg you will be my sir mize

Ere leaving me out of your love affair until the wedding day.

Dawitm,

Regarding your comment 89 my apologies if I stepped on your toes. That was not my intention.

[quote comment="63154"]Be still my heart, be still He is back, yupi dupi!
MWC welcome wushemye see Abuye heard my selot, just yesterday I lit tuwaf, got down on ma knees and asked the good Lord please bring back my mind Good to see you shegaw.

Celeb awo beEne ena beMinde yemigeba yelem except his own milas Degmo I have been right here esu newe enji tedebeko siyalekis yeneber (I know am gonna get a paragraph just for saying he hid ). BTW if this should ever turn out to be in one kick arse serg you will be my sir mize [/quote]

……. ……. …………

Endew..endew ..endew ..Menabate LaderGat befeTerachu!?
…..uffff…ye’Zendron keremt MewTatem enjalign…
beqa Her mind, her wits, her humor, her Zelefa…her QoTa..QoTa..her again..eshiruru -the all yours in one shot-..scan me Gedaw nature… Ohffff!

Just as my Ethiopian Grandma used her seductive tongue to whip my Eritrean Grandpa’s tiny heart in her creamy…steamy heart…this one is luring me with more danger with both heart + mind…Gude’ new… wushemenet is in my Gene…and don’t know if i win on this either.

just to be sure if her words had substance…i needed some snooping around skill, so i went to Tekleye Beteksian and temaledku Tekleyen for detective work…Tekleye being him and recognizing his kids…put me on his shoulder ..and just flew like a wind….She was under the radar until detected at Estifnos Betekirstian.

It appears, Tekleye said, she came down from UraEl…and her next destination is!? I asked. Ssst…QoTa belew!
..don’t disrupt, can’t you see she is seloting in finding you, you damn ass. I quietly inquired me, do angels curse!? and I remembered what my Eritrean Grandma told me..Once upon a time Angels used to be humans…. and that sync with my Q?

She was in deed deep into it. She can’t see me, i am within Tekleye’s invisible power. I scaned, gazed at her attentively BeMeDeneQ… she draped that NeTela gracefully, no exposure appropriate attire for her memaled…typical of our Abeshitoch sisters..respecting the code of the creator’s campus and his presence. This is what I like about my Abeshitoch, I said.

Then…b4 i know it she got up and Def..Def…wedefit.. walking up the BeteMenGist’s hill, leaving African Union Bldg. onto her right. I followed…and I said…Tekleye FeTen yebelu enji.. Tefi teseTegn…. darn..WaT arkuwat.

With her speed, she arrived at Gabriel and she did her memaled. then she headed on to Arat kilo…passed Parlam..and..there Selassie….and next…to my surprise, she curved and entered AA University. i was excited… i said please go to the library…and she did..she is no disappointment…i think WeDeDkuwat…she read some literature in there. No wonder her Amharic..Amarigna..Amarigna… now I understand, why so sharp in Amharic…I said, this is my Girl,who the freaking F#$% is messing with her… she wanted me to exercise cursing as well so i am re-learning what i had mastered and left behind..again…just for her… that is what they call it ..Sete Ye’Lakew Mot Ayefera…. wey Gude’

In a few, she headed to the cafeteria…to eat lentils with three pieces of meat, called THEREFORE as fondly named by students.:-) (Those of you who’ve been there remember it, don’t U ?.)

and within minutes..she headed towards 5-kilo..and turn left on Qidist mariam …more memaled in there…and..
headed to GiorGis thru Afencho Bere…man she is atheletic too..that 70 DereJa…fut fut …fast fast.. Teklye with his one leg was having a problem keeping up… i heared him gasping and ..QoTa QoTa … boy …yante Yaleh… Ufff… GiorGis more memaled…

Then she took the hill down to her next destination and thru Atkilt tera, crossing Somlia Tera..headed towards Tekleye.. there… Teklye smiled…in big..there my little GirL! there your Girl…there she is now ..now all in one…my job is done says Teklye and pushed me off his back…making me visible to her bare eyes …she staring at me in a stunned and surprised way, her eyes widely opened eyes. BELTET….

How in the world, he popped up here!? well, again, she said..abuye in deed … leka Joro aleh…she looked up and murmured…

YekeyDamaitu… SheGitu.. yeBeQal Lazerw… .. i still owe you to the other one. … with time it will come.

and don’t empower Celeb. She is already causing fire.

Be still my heart, be still He is back, yupi dupi!
MWC welcome wushemye see Abuye heard my selot, just yesterday I lit tuwaf, got down on ma knees and asked the good Lord please bring back my mind Good to see you shegaw.

Celeb awo beEne ena beMinde yemigeba yelem except his own milas Degmo I have been right here esu newe enji tedebeko siyalekis yeneber (I know am gonna get a paragraph just for saying he hid ). BTW if this should ever turn out to be in one kick arse serg you will be my sir mize

[quote comment="63055"]YekeyDamaitu,

Where are u? … yet nesh benatish… …I am coming to you as well. I hope you have not listened to Celebratelife and her thought-process. She is evil on that advice. she knows, she can’t get away with that ..only a 50mi radius separate us.[/quote]

Ante, you’re holding me responsible because you upset her and she went into hiding LOL. She don’t listen to no one trying to come between the two of you. She vowed it’s MWC and YD for life (or something like that)

YekeyDamaitu,

Where are u? … yet nesh benatish… …I am coming to you as well. I hope you have not listened to Celebratelife and her thought-process. She is evil on that advice. she knows, she can’t get away with that ..only a 50mi radius separate us.

will respond tomorrow. until then Be’Selam Qoyi eski..Guregnawa.. Bezuuu’ko ettttt alesh benatish..
Have you not read my post#75 ? ..anyho ..give me time…eski..

~tii then.

Melata,

All I said, for your comment of post#91, was, Yes Sir! work and life has pinned me down so i have not had a chance to respond, but here is bro. Follow me, Larry, as YekeyDama says.

For me, the biggest trouble is: when Ignorance is knelt down to incapacity.

You see, we all were and are ignorants to the dynamic of tomorrow as tomorrow breeds new events for us. we have to catch up, using our dynamic capacity. We ought to, in order to survive, we must utilize our individual capacity to overcome our ignorance.

Now, if Incapacity is what governs our mind, instead of ignorance then we are in BIG trouble. I see this similarity in your comment, bro.

And, Yet, somehow, my instincts, also tell me that you are not who you said you are. I just have that feeling. I sense some grudge, so I decided to enlighten a bit.

A meadow with dry grass would in deed use some wetness from a morning dew. Wouldn’t it? It would.

The child in me, typical of its fighting characteristic and inquisition, inquires this (remember it is ONLY asking you not saying those words to you).

So, Melata, in your mind-set, if a person says, “F$#% you, you mother f$#@% melata, you son-of-a bitch, negro!”

Does that mean, this above expression puts that person in the age category of 1x(x=0 – 9) ; 2y(y=0-9)Or whatever classification you use for “balege” group?
Does s/he? I leave the answer to you.

To add some salt to it: the great but foul-mouth Ethiopian singer Mary (may she RIP) would not be
classified in the age group that you think is acceptable to say “balege” words in her music that has resonated a couple of generation, would she?

Realistically, as the creator plans it to happen, life forces us to age on its natural track. Elderly is grace and inevitably arrives to anyone being’s door on its own time and term, including you and I. I, for one, will accept it with grace when it arrives to my door. i am prepping for it. Not a new phenomenon. all people, whether they like it or not, understand and bitterly accept that natural phenomenon so, why walk with an incapaciated understanding of it.

So, not wise, to disregard, nature’s A,B,C matter-of-facts.

ignorance has two faces. One that overcomes its idiosyncrasy, foiblety over time, one that statically remains as is. so, we, as individuals, have a choice.

Even children perform the process of differentiating and integrating perceptual concretes in order to grasp the understanding of judgement.

Let us judge with capacity and REASON!

~END~

Dawitm,

I actually gave a second thought about you after reading your conciliatory tone Post #89.

That, I call it wisdom, my homeboy.

Whether I am “decent” or not, for you to say that, after our harsh back-n-forth is in deed nothing but azuro yemayet chilota. –For this attribute, you earn my utmost respect!–

That is the way it should be and grown-ups do.

Spending our precious time here doesn’t give the impression that our time is Expendable. Why allow ourselves to let someone waste our time, RENT our minds. we own it.

If a writing is not debatable or worth reading, then we just leave it where it is and move on.

So, hopefully, in the future, our debate would be amicable and educational no matter how intense it might turn out to be, which it ought to.

Appreciate your sensible mind. Keep it up.

I would also appreciate, If I may ask earnestly that you please not touch my loyal and consistent, fan Fikirte. She is one of the few of my protective angels here.
They come out like our Hamle (July) season sun when I am attacked. … there, is no hypocrisy there. so, let us all chill out.:-)

Tsedu: what a disappointment you wrote Girl! There is no girl to fight over, unless you breed us some imaginative one. on your other comment, i just let it enlighten me.

Don’t you follow? Unless, you have been absent-minded, the water was clear, the wavelength was sinusoidal,
the beach was quiet, the sand was warm. Can you not see Actual vs. Virtual? Can you NOT?

Any ways, kinda disappointed in the way you perceived and analyzed on the topic u commented. In my mind, you failed you. you were out of the game line.

Please let us focus on the writings, on the thought-processes instead. Can we?

[quote comment="61632"]dawitm ,all i got to say is you are so adorable .[/quote]

tsedu, thanks! …(you are too:)

melata, i think you are a bit exaggerating. as far as i can see, there is no ‘balege’ person nor there is/ was ‘balege’ stuff written here. then again, it may all be a matter of interpretation, and probably in your head anyway, try to see on the bright side

since everybody commenting about mindwithoutc guy ,if may say something .I think his comments aren’t boring ,i think he is just reserved person ,it can also be the age group he is in ,really would you guys expect your father or uncle ….to write in ”balege” . from his writing he sounds like respectable older gentleman , lets respect our elders people and their opinion regardless of thier age group .thank you

dawitm ,all i got to say is you are so adorable .

i can smell and feel the love i am happy the way things turned out.

I don’t want to start again, but i have to say that fikerte is a bit hypocritical by claiming that you are a fan of MWC(mind you, there is nothing wrong with it, but be consistent . if you rememeber, it all started cuz i said i was a fan. by saying that, i was not in anyway undermining anyone’s contribution to this thread. MWC sounds like a decent guy, but for my taste he aint YD (tsedu, that was funny …. but,no thanks, i dont play that
also, don’t make it sound like i was dying to get YD’s attention. i was just bieng brutally honest about how i felt when i read her arguements and her eloquent responses. if that rubs some of you the wrong way, then it is not intentional, i apologize.

love you all

Exclusivity is not something to be examined through a vacuum. In other words, there is nothing static about it. It requires constant updates to keep it fresh and innovative. But more often than not, someone in the relationship is going to find exclusivity being very elusive.

Exclusivity is a committed choice by two of like mind, who are adequately convinced that they can build a life together.

Exclusivity is free of all emotional duress, indecisiveness,and begging.

If exclusivity is based around sex; it will never last.
If its based on true friendship and understanding, even these elements still will not ensure exclusivity.

Exclusivity is only as important as the two individuals feel it is. And even then, there are various facets to exclusivity.

We live in a very vibrant tri-state area where your every dream can come true if you are so inclined.
Marriage is even viewed differently. There are temptations on every hand. On any given weekend, you may witness committed couples taking leave of each other in order to indulge themselves in those very pleasures, which scorn and laugh in the very face of exclusivity. So what can be said of it…?

Afterall, anti-exclusivity is a life-style too, just like any other.

I have my concerns of course. But watching this ‘circus’(as the whole relationship game can be at times) with detachment seems to provide some sense of perspicacity.

Everything in life has its common denominater. Exclusity is always ideal, but human nature can be intractable.

Exclusivity is a mature, conscious decision. If a certain maturity and consciousness is lacking on any part between the two, exclusivity cannot exist.

Thanks again for an insightful article.

YekeyDama, AMEN to that, preach it sista! I love your positive attitude. You make your point spiced with your amazing humor.

I thank any road work/construction that might have caused you to make the wrong turn onto Bernos.org Avenue. You are a joy to read and please continue your dialogue with MWC, the two of you are a hoot. How he corrects you and you spank him with a “how dare you” speech. Woooo you guys are a match made on Bernos I tell you. Dawitm is the main spectator followed by the rest of us as he will not share the orchestra seating. I’d spend a pretty penny on a ticket if I can watch the two of you battle it out live.

Now two of my favorite bloggers have met and fallen in cyber love what more can a Bernosian ask for! Elelelelele

Dawitm: ante leba, ante esatun ef ef eyalk eyaragebk budwisehin yezeh letemok newe aydel siketatel…mogehen felg Far be it from me from telling you to refrain from expressing your opinions, that said though there is no popularity contest and no prize to win (darn it ). I am flattered if my tirs megorgoriya tickles you and I am glad someone is laughing with me.

Fikirte: Your wish is my command I’ve said more than Hi, I told him to take off his hand from my tushe Now I am glad we are making your day endurable. See that is what it is all about. Doesn’t matter how long or short your piece is, everybody in their own way brings something to the table for someone to grab a hold on to. Now that is empowering! To know that not only do you live in your self but you are also living by extension because someone else is taking something from you to enrich his/her life in whatever shape way or form. Hopefully paying it forward.

In reading MWC, his analysis and ways of thinking can bring a challenge to new ways of thinking and being.

In reading Meron, someone may derive courage from her experience and have ‘the talk’ with their parents and that (hopefully) will nurture the relationship with better understanding and enrich their lives with love, care and respect.

In reading Celeb, someone might be inspired by her sassiness and confidence and that might bring out the silenced tiger (feminism) to the surface allowing her to carry herself with pride and dignity. Not to mention, be encourage to have ‘the talk’ with her significant other/boyfriend/partner/companion.

In reading Nolawi: some can be taken back (be it via his podcast, tee design, article etc) to a place and time they’ve left behind and bring back good memories that can comfort the lonely & sidetegna soul.

In reading Chelema, his stories can give some people the distraction they need to focus on something else other than their problem.

In reading toothpickfactory: however limited edition it is, his tirsmegorgoriya will no doubt give some the belly laugh or in the least a smile because the cat is darn hilarious and oh so original. This can bring to someone a much needed comic relief to smooth out the wrinkles created by our day-to-day life.

In reading DawitK: some can learn the diplomacy, grace and professional ways of relating with consumers in order to establish and maintain a successful and thriving business.

Now while I can not list everyone’s contribution (these are jus the few examples) by no means my omission of the many participants of this blog is to imply that they bring nothing to the table. On the contrary, what I am trying to highlight is that everyone, regardless of how vast or small their reservoir of experience in life may be, each person brings something for someone. That is what I like and appreciate about places like Bernos, Abesha.com, Seleda etc because it brings people from all walks of life (with an experience, thought and opinion of their own) and gives us the platform to share; give and take, whatever as we see fit to our lives. That is how we can grow and better ourselves both as individuals and as a collective community under the umbrella of the big universe. I believe in order for a revolution to be effective and fruitful, it must start from within. Am sure Rosa Parks never anticipated her own revolution, as one ordinary woman who refused to no longer be told where her place in life is, would lay the ground works for what took place in black history. With that said, the gateways sites like this opened will hopefully bring a revolution of our own within our community as we continue to exchange our opinions, appreciate & guard close the values that is dear to us, challenge the ones that are desperately in need of revision, challenge the norm, the taboo, and as we continue to think outside of the box and reach for the “unreachable”. Melkam Senbet Wegen, I have reached my weekly quota:)

Oh boy, oh boy! Ere baba jalew, tewu eko endih aydlem negeru First order of business, group hug (hey! Who’s pinching my tushe? Ante dawitm I said hug as in ketekesha belay get your hands of me arse ) Ya, now that’s better, see smiling uses many muscles in our body and it relaxes any tension felt, that is why a comic relief should be a must have dietary supplement of our lives. Now back to you Larry

Hear me out yene konjo… character assassination, at the very least, would require one to know the other a little more and beyond the limited corners of this blog, I don’t know you from Adam’s and you of me, so if for a moment I coined you to be among the few who like to grow character judgments in a Petri Dish of their own making, I would not have dignified you as humorously, respectfully and to the extent that I did. I don’t tolerate such ignorance that has no ground to stand on. So, no you need not to apologize on that end. However, I will tell you what irked me…a scent of self righteousness (perhaps unbeknownst to you) that accompanied your remarks. Follow me, pretty please …

Shegaw, it was all kosher and frankly thoroughly enjoyable until you went on a tangent and brought some serious notes on aspects of decency, respect, values, accountability minamin. There was a hint of self-righteousness in what you said and the way you said them that turned me off. I don’t think I am alone in seeing it this way but you more than implied that I was being ‘indecent’ & disrespectful to the participants of the blog readers by the mere usage of the “nasty” word. As far as I am concerned fuck never killed anyone, don’t pardon the pun In my opinion, out of all that I said, too much value should not have been granted to a mere word and choice of expression that I quite frankly believe is darn funny Now I can respect the fact that you are not laughing with me, also I can appreciate and understand your aversion to the word but I wasn’t willing to let what I felt was being subtly insinuated slide by amidst the humor. When words of grave value (such as decency & respect ) gets thrown around in the most inopportune time and bota then I, as a reader of your thoughts, don’t know what to make of the intent behind them. The message you are trying to convey gets lost in translation for there is a carried insinuation that is hanging in the balance that is not quite clear to its recipient. You know what I mean?
I must admit, there are some conflicting & contradicting aspects to your remarks. I will, however, take your explanation at a face value and call it a draw No foul, no crime.

so i thought, at least, … you might accomodate me if you could if not fine…

Gena kafe ‘fffff’ sil eko newe yazugne lekekugn yalkew enji enema meche frequent yehone profanity seizure alebign bleh so I think we will be ok but when I do exercise that guilty pleasure of say the word of your aversion, how about I accommodate you by flagging you to duck or cover your eyes? See Emaye timut I am generous eko

i think you are making me now feel uncomfortable of saying things.

Come on now MWC, you are better than that! Now that is silly, why would you surrender your free will & thoughts on behalf of someone else, least of all me? This is what I have been trying to tell you, to not worry so much and to just be and grant others the latitude to be whatever they will. At any rate, I believe the difference between bileh and mogne is that bileh knows when to call it quit. Since you and I are two bileh individuals let us mutually agree to drop ‘the talk’ (on this particular aspect) and meet again on another angel to exchange, provoke, evoke and most of all laugh while doing so. I am offering this because I am laughing (perhaps few others too), I am just not quite sure if you are laughing with me/us and I don’t want my entertainment to be at the expense of someone who might take it a little more seriously than I. Chewata, wezgeb and comedy, in its at most effective form, is supposed to be enjoyable, never hurtful. So let us just kiss and make out Be comfortable, be you and do you.

thanks celeb ,your genius article started all this , give us more please, i love bernos .

I read all this back and forth and I have the urge to say “Baby, can we talk?” to all of you. LOL

Tsedu you’re funny. I see you’re a part time matchmaker.

I love Bernos cause there’s never a dull moment.

hey Fikirte , what if there is … so what? why you care so much of what i write anyway?

There you go now practice what you preach.

tsedu, Lol at the hookup!

MWC, I’m here to read your thoughts so know that you have a fan in me.

YekeyDama I do enjoy your writing and the dialogue between you and MWC is keeping my work day fun and interesting. Now I do have a favor to ask of you, please say hi to Dawitm he seems to feel left out since he’s giving you love and you’re not returning it. Thanks.

OMG I forgot today is Friday the 13th is it also full moon? Please everyone put away your claws and let’s enjoy more of MWC and YD. Come on please I’m begging.