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	<title>Comments on: Dear Abesha Wondoch</title>
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		<title>By: Salvas</title>
		<link>http://www.bernos.org/blog/2006/11/19/abesha-wondoch/comment-page-3/#comment-160659</link>
		<dc:creator>Salvas</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 30 Oct 2009 06:37:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Craigslist w4m NSA, Seattle w4m Chicago w4m New York, Cleveland, San Francisco Portland, San Antonio, Houston, Las Vegas, Los Angelas, Sacramento, Orlando, Dallas, friends and hot gals live and local. Get some on Halloween! http://budurl.com/localbuddies</description>
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		<title>By: Konjotoo</title>
		<link>http://www.bernos.org/blog/2006/11/19/abesha-wondoch/comment-page-3/#comment-158285</link>
		<dc:creator>Konjotoo</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 01 Mar 2009 09:04:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>#115
&quot;utruytgtgiuyoifuuygfjyc 7tyufc utyfuy yut hn 7t 6uy 8uyvf&quot;

My thoughts exactly, relationship is all about code language.</description>
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&#8220;utruytgtgiuyoifuuygfjyc 7tyufc utyfuy yut hn 7t 6uy 8uyvf&#8221;</p>
<p>My thoughts exactly, relationship is all about code language.</p>
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		<title>By: yemmm</title>
		<link>http://www.bernos.org/blog/2006/11/19/abesha-wondoch/comment-page-3/#comment-156663</link>
		<dc:creator>yemmm</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 23 Nov 2008 22:16:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>what i wonder is, why Habeshas women R looking for others. when they feel they R (Arada)or learn language for beaching with others . Don&#039;t they know others prefer their own people?</description>
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		<title>By: Konjo</title>
		<link>http://www.bernos.org/blog/2006/11/19/abesha-wondoch/comment-page-3/#comment-156658</link>
		<dc:creator>Konjo</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 22 Nov 2008 12:38:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>utruytgtgiuyoifuuygfjyc  7tyufc utyfuy yut hn 7t 6uy 8uyvf</description>
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		<title>By: newman</title>
		<link>http://www.bernos.org/blog/2006/11/19/abesha-wondoch/comment-page-3/#comment-156262</link>
		<dc:creator>newman</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 10 Oct 2008 18:13:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I think the &quot;house wife&quot; part is being mis-interpreted in my post. 
Let me rephrase: you can&#039;t make a good girl out of a slut

I am not saying there are no man sluts neither.

No modern man wants a house wife... unless he enjoys being nagged every day back from work. Plus two incomes always beat one.

I have found that those who try to justify that kind of a behaviour as &quot;OK&quot; or &quot;temporary&quot; are always that way and never change. Even after they get married or find a man that respects them.</description>
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Let me rephrase: you can&#8217;t make a good girl out of a slut</p>
<p>I am not saying there are no man sluts neither.</p>
<p>No modern man wants a house wife&#8230; unless he enjoys being nagged every day back from work. Plus two incomes always beat one.</p>
<p>I have found that those who try to justify that kind of a behaviour as &#8220;OK&#8221; or &#8220;temporary&#8221; are always that way and never change. Even after they get married or find a man that respects them.</p>
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		<title>By: BEZ</title>
		<link>http://www.bernos.org/blog/2006/11/19/abesha-wondoch/comment-page-3/#comment-156198</link>
		<dc:creator>BEZ</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 06 Oct 2008 22:49:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>umm about that drink line, like the comedian said &quot;if i buy you a drink and you drink it, then we go together&quot; lol. and as far as the how to come at women, this is a universal law, in the words of Scarface &quot;In this country, first you get the money, then you get the power, then you get the women&quot;</description>
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		<title>By: Dinich</title>
		<link>http://www.bernos.org/blog/2006/11/19/abesha-wondoch/comment-page-3/#comment-156197</link>
		<dc:creator>Dinich</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 06 Oct 2008 18:25:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Spacefog,

me too :)</description>
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<p>me too <img src='http://www.bernos.org/blog/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Spacefog</title>
		<link>http://www.bernos.org/blog/2006/11/19/abesha-wondoch/comment-page-3/#comment-156196</link>
		<dc:creator>Spacefog</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 06 Oct 2008 15:59:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>newman 

&quot;you can’t make a hoe a house wife&quot;

This is soooooo...BS!

A house wife 

-cooks 
-cleans 
-looks after children 
-Provides sexual services
-Don&#039;t get a penny out of all these 

Well , I am totally better of as a hoe!

Dinich 

Quoting Nolawi &quot;Shurrrruup!&quot;:)</description>
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<p>&#8220;you can’t make a hoe a house wife&#8221;</p>
<p>This is soooooo&#8230;BS!</p>
<p>A house wife </p>
<p>-cooks<br />
-cleans<br />
-looks after children<br />
-Provides sexual services<br />
-Don&#8217;t get a penny out of all these </p>
<p>Well , I am totally better of as a hoe!</p>
<p>Dinich </p>
<p>Quoting Nolawi &#8220;Shurrrruup!&#8221;:)</p>
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		<title>By: Dinich</title>
		<link>http://www.bernos.org/blog/2006/11/19/abesha-wondoch/comment-page-3/#comment-156195</link>
		<dc:creator>Dinich</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 06 Oct 2008 14:04:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>To u all boys and gals,

It takes two to have sex....stop blaming the opposite sex....if u think there is a problem,  both sexes r part of it.   If gold diggers are the problem...gold providers r too...etc....</description>
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<p>It takes two to have sex&#8230;.stop blaming the opposite sex&#8230;.if u think there is a problem,  both sexes r part of it.   If gold diggers are the problem&#8230;gold providers r too&#8230;etc&#8230;.</p>
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		<title>By: Maria</title>
		<link>http://www.bernos.org/blog/2006/11/19/abesha-wondoch/comment-page-3/#comment-156194</link>
		<dc:creator>Maria</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 06 Oct 2008 11:39:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>haveballs you are a troll. crawl back under a bridge where you belong, newman you can join haveballs under the bridge.</description>
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		<title>By: newman</title>
		<link>http://www.bernos.org/blog/2006/11/19/abesha-wondoch/comment-page-3/#comment-156193</link>
		<dc:creator>newman</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 06 Oct 2008 02:43:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>It kind of hurts to see such a moral decline in our ladies. I could go on and on about some abesha girls I know being gold diggers, cheaters and so on. But I know there are good ones for every bad ones. You just have to try and find one. One thing is for sure though: you can&#039;t make a hoe a house wife.</description>
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		<title>By: Hidaya</title>
		<link>http://www.bernos.org/blog/2006/11/19/abesha-wondoch/comment-page-3/#comment-156188</link>
		<dc:creator>Hidaya</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 04 Oct 2008 14:00:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Fanno,

Love is not easy to control and whose arms one falls into comes under that category...</description>
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<p>Love is not easy to control and whose arms one falls into comes under that category&#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: datdude</title>
		<link>http://www.bernos.org/blog/2006/11/19/abesha-wondoch/comment-page-3/#comment-156186</link>
		<dc:creator>datdude</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 04 Oct 2008 10:39:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>lol mikematic, that was ill, like illmatic :) k i&#039;m out &gt;&gt;&gt;&gt;&gt;&gt;&gt;&gt;&gt;&gt;&gt;&gt;&gt;&gt;&gt;</description>
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		<title>By: justme</title>
		<link>http://www.bernos.org/blog/2006/11/19/abesha-wondoch/comment-page-3/#comment-156184</link>
		<dc:creator>justme</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 03 Oct 2008 19:03:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&quot;haveballs #104&quot; get a life wendem!!</description>
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		<title>By: haveballs</title>
		<link>http://www.bernos.org/blog/2006/11/19/abesha-wondoch/comment-page-3/#comment-156182</link>
		<dc:creator>haveballs</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 03 Oct 2008 16:26:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Wendemoche  LISTEN !!

NEVER LET A BITCH RUN YOUR LIFE ! ! ! ! 

.....and try something different! Abesha setoch when they come here to the US, they start having this &quot;I&#039;m a queen&quot; mentality. Trust me try non-abesha and find out what you have been missing. who cares what abesha women want.

... not all abesha women. there are some real sweat hearts. 

what do we abesha men want? LOVE... no more zibazinke. 

NEVER EVER LET A BITCH RUN YOUR LIFE.</description>
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<p>NEVER LET A BITCH RUN YOUR LIFE ! ! ! ! </p>
<p>&#8230;..and try something different! Abesha setoch when they come here to the US, they start having this &#8220;I&#8217;m a queen&#8221; mentality. Trust me try non-abesha and find out what you have been missing. who cares what abesha women want.</p>
<p>&#8230; not all abesha women. there are some real sweat hearts. </p>
<p>what do we abesha men want? LOVE&#8230; no more zibazinke. </p>
<p>NEVER EVER LET A BITCH RUN YOUR LIFE.</p>
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		<title>By: TSION</title>
		<link>http://www.bernos.org/blog/2006/11/19/abesha-wondoch/comment-page-3/#comment-156052</link>
		<dc:creator>TSION</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 20 Sep 2008 02:27:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Some true , some bad any how we are what we are ,just know what you offer.</description>
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		<title>By: Totit</title>
		<link>http://www.bernos.org/blog/2006/11/19/abesha-wondoch/comment-page-3/#comment-156044</link>
		<dc:creator>Totit</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 19 Sep 2008 14:28:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Fanno...we r the foreigners here...:)</description>
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		<title>By: kermoTija</title>
		<link>http://www.bernos.org/blog/2006/11/19/abesha-wondoch/comment-page-3/#comment-156039</link>
		<dc:creator>kermoTija</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 19 Sep 2008 05:26:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>What works Le abesha set is kuna bir or kuna wushet</description>
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		<title>By: Mikematic</title>
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		<dc:creator>Mikematic</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 18 Sep 2008 16:58:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Blah Blah Blah...Blah Blah Blah... Sounds like Hitlers rhetoric of preserving the Aryan race...Sorry for the interruption, please do continue...</description>
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		<title>By: Fanno</title>
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		<dc:creator>Fanno</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 18 Sep 2008 16:46:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Good for you and good for us, Rebecca, that you still want your abesha man....we seek you too, my dear...there are are many of us out there yearing for the love of an ethiopian woman...feeling like you do...don&#039;t give up yet...although i know the urgencies of the choices we must make in our lives sometiems can&#039;t be out off for too long...

...You said &quot;Despite everything, I still want yabesha lij…ayate yenegerugne teret senegrew yemigebaw…&quot; ... There is a lot of wisdom in this than just the pleasure of being understood...to me this is also about maintainng our identity, preserving  a part of who we are as ethiopians -- scattered all over the world fleeing poverty, seeking opposrtunity, to better our lives and those of our loved ones back home..we are still connected to the motherland -- enat ethiopia...through everything we carry within ourselves and without. Surely, we can love and be happy with  a &#039;ferenj&#039; and still do good for oursleves, and perhaps help out our peole too..may be...but what is the cost of fleeing into the arms of a foreigner?...is our personal convenience and pleasure worth giving up a piece of who we are or risking losing &#039;ourselves&#039; altogether?... think back!...doesn&#039;t it come with the territory that when we went to Bole that first time, and chose to leave our natural home and go to a foreign land that we would need to change to survive, to fit in and yet wasn&#039;t there some trepidition about that change...about the risk of losing ourselves?...To me, it&#039;s impertive that we preserve who we are to be happy and normal in our new found homes...but more importantly, if we are to survive as a people, we have to preserve our identity and our unique culture...it&#039;s what made us who we are...&#039;the beautiful people...the graceful elderly lady ... the friendly people...that innocent smile you see on every ethiopian face...the good people...the proud..and the unique...&#039; When you seek one of your own, you&#039;re seeking to preserve the ehtiopian in you! It goes beyond the satisfaction of our personal needs!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class="comment-toolbar" style="text-align: right"><a href="#comment" onclick="CF_Reply('156032','Fanno'); return false;">Reply</a>  |  <a href="#comment" onclick="CF_Quote('156032','Fanno'); return false;">Quote</a></div><span id="co_156032"><p>Good for you and good for us, Rebecca, that you still want your abesha man&#8230;.we seek you too, my dear&#8230;there are are many of us out there yearing for the love of an ethiopian woman&#8230;feeling like you do&#8230;don&#8217;t give up yet&#8230;although i know the urgencies of the choices we must make in our lives sometiems can&#8217;t be out off for too long&#8230;</p>
<p>&#8230;You said &#8220;Despite everything, I still want yabesha lij…ayate yenegerugne teret senegrew yemigebaw…&#8221; &#8230; There is a lot of wisdom in this than just the pleasure of being understood&#8230;to me this is also about maintainng our identity, preserving  a part of who we are as ethiopians &#8212; scattered all over the world fleeing poverty, seeking opposrtunity, to better our lives and those of our loved ones back home..we are still connected to the motherland &#8212; enat ethiopia&#8230;through everything we carry within ourselves and without. Surely, we can love and be happy with  a &#8216;ferenj&#8217; and still do good for oursleves, and perhaps help out our peole too..may be&#8230;but what is the cost of fleeing into the arms of a foreigner?&#8230;is our personal convenience and pleasure worth giving up a piece of who we are or risking losing &#8216;ourselves&#8217; altogether?&#8230; think back!&#8230;doesn&#8217;t it come with the territory that when we went to Bole that first time, and chose to leave our natural home and go to a foreign land that we would need to change to survive, to fit in and yet wasn&#8217;t there some trepidition about that change&#8230;about the risk of losing ourselves?&#8230;To me, it&#8217;s impertive that we preserve who we are to be happy and normal in our new found homes&#8230;but more importantly, if we are to survive as a people, we have to preserve our identity and our unique culture&#8230;it&#8217;s what made us who we are&#8230;&#8217;the beautiful people&#8230;the graceful elderly lady &#8230; the friendly people&#8230;that innocent smile you see on every ethiopian face&#8230;the good people&#8230;the proud..and the unique&#8230;&#8217; When you seek one of your own, you&#8217;re seeking to preserve the ehtiopian in you! It goes beyond the satisfaction of our personal needs!</p>
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		<title>By: Rebecca</title>
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		<dc:creator>Rebecca</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 14 Sep 2008 22:13:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I still want a Habesha wond...although I&#039;ve only dated one and he totally pissed me off; although all the ones i know can&#039;t carry on a coherent conversation; although I have the fun of my life with the non-habeshas...I still want yagern lij...sad but true. 
They say I&#039;m intimidating and quite impossible...endelelochu yabesha setoch aydeleshim...hmmm...i get that all the time. Ena Masterseshin cheresesh ph.D leteketyi new? Woy gud, ere bekash...! Menalebet, wow, berchi belegne? Believe me, i don&#039;t have one of those serious faces and don&#039;t go around bragging about what I do. Ask all the non-habeshas i&#039;ve dated and they&#039;ll tell you i&#039;m a natural flirt and quite fun! 
Despite everything, I still want yabesha lij...ayate yenegerugne teret senegrew yemigebaw...gin, yetabate lagegnew? I&#039;m willing to compromise but I still haven&#039;t found one that turns me on, one who hasn&#039;t called me an over achiever. With the way things are going, beka i&#039;m gonna end up with a ferenj or as my ayat would put it a &quot;tikur ferenj&quot;...not because I would love him as much as I would have loved my imaginary habesha wond but because he would probably appreciate me...and it breaks my heart.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class="comment-toolbar" style="text-align: right"><a href="#comment" onclick="CF_Reply('155982','Rebecca'); return false;">Reply</a>  |  <a href="#comment" onclick="CF_Quote('155982','Rebecca'); return false;">Quote</a></div><span id="co_155982"><p>I still want a Habesha wond&#8230;although I&#8217;ve only dated one and he totally pissed me off; although all the ones i know can&#8217;t carry on a coherent conversation; although I have the fun of my life with the non-habeshas&#8230;I still want yagern lij&#8230;sad but true.<br />
They say I&#8217;m intimidating and quite impossible&#8230;endelelochu yabesha setoch aydeleshim&#8230;hmmm&#8230;i get that all the time. Ena Masterseshin cheresesh ph.D leteketyi new? Woy gud, ere bekash&#8230;! Menalebet, wow, berchi belegne? Believe me, i don&#8217;t have one of those serious faces and don&#8217;t go around bragging about what I do. Ask all the non-habeshas i&#8217;ve dated and they&#8217;ll tell you i&#8217;m a natural flirt and quite fun!<br />
Despite everything, I still want yabesha lij&#8230;ayate yenegerugne teret senegrew yemigebaw&#8230;gin, yetabate lagegnew? I&#8217;m willing to compromise but I still haven&#8217;t found one that turns me on, one who hasn&#8217;t called me an over achiever. With the way things are going, beka i&#8217;m gonna end up with a ferenj or as my ayat would put it a &#8220;tikur ferenj&#8221;&#8230;not because I would love him as much as I would have loved my imaginary habesha wond but because he would probably appreciate me&#8230;and it breaks my heart.</p>
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		<title>By: Getu</title>
		<link>http://www.bernos.org/blog/2006/11/19/abesha-wondoch/comment-page-2/#comment-155877</link>
		<dc:creator>Getu</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 28 Aug 2008 01:58:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hehe...
Here&#039;s a weak post. Still though, thanks for saving me the 5 bucks. Now I dont have to get a popular magazine to read this exact post. 
I wonder what it is that some people drink or eat or smell that makes them think they&#039;ve got it all figured out and they can speak for everyone else. 
one last thing, most conformist!!!!</description>
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Here&#8217;s a weak post. Still though, thanks for saving me the 5 bucks. Now I dont have to get a popular magazine to read this exact post.<br />
I wonder what it is that some people drink or eat or smell that makes them think they&#8217;ve got it all figured out and they can speak for everyone else.<br />
one last thing, most conformist!!!!</p>
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		<title>By: sara</title>
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		<dc:creator>sara</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 28 Aug 2008 00:31:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>hurt wonde 
woooooooooow that really touch me deep
how awful.
But i agree with you some woman use men alot to get what they want and it&#039;s not fair for MEN!!

habesha women are very dangerouse most of the times,  i know this  because i&#039;m a habesh women tooo!! and i hate it when my friends try to do that to others.

but i like your success at the end!!
but you still wanted a habesh women thats where it got me the most REALLY SAD!!

GOOD LUCK FOR YOUR FUTURE</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class="comment-toolbar" style="text-align: right"><a href="#comment" onclick="CF_Reply('155876','sara'); return false;">Reply</a>  |  <a href="#comment" onclick="CF_Quote('155876','sara'); return false;">Quote</a></div><span id="co_155876"><p>hurt wonde<br />
woooooooooow that really touch me deep<br />
how awful.<br />
But i agree with you some woman use men alot to get what they want and it&#8217;s not fair for MEN!!</p>
<p>habesha women are very dangerouse most of the times,  i know this  because i&#8217;m a habesh women tooo!! and i hate it when my friends try to do that to others.</p>
<p>but i like your success at the end!!<br />
but you still wanted a habesh women thats where it got me the most REALLY SAD!!</p>
<p>GOOD LUCK FOR YOUR FUTURE</p>
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		<title>By: E</title>
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		<dc:creator>E</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 03 May 2008 00:24:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>lol 

interesting posts above.

&quot;You see when you got your confidence together a woman will be on you like white on rice.&quot;

hmmm...I will have to chew that for a while.</description>
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<p>interesting posts above.</p>
<p>&#8220;You see when you got your confidence together a woman will be on you like white on rice.&#8221;</p>
<p>hmmm&#8230;I will have to chew that for a while.</p>
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		<title>By: Meskerem</title>
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		<dc:creator>Meskerem</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 02 May 2008 15:12:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>wayooo, abesha neger no. dating is one thing marriage is another right,in the end we want to impart our values and pass on our culture to our kids,  but all this drama really tires me to read and hear this in the community,in dating u will come across everything until one day you finally see someone who gets YOU.

 seems like men from every ager complaining about their women and its usually the complaint &quot;women are golddiggers&quot; this cant all be true can it? and the women sayin the guys are no good, are we lookin&#039; at peoples hearts, are ew expecting people to cater to our every whim, thats not love. i think alot of things have to change in society most of all being HONEST about how we are and what we except from each other, Respect comes first always, and remmember, love is a noun and a verb.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class="comment-toolbar" style="text-align: right"><a href="#comment" onclick="CF_Reply('145628','Meskerem'); return false;">Reply</a>  |  <a href="#comment" onclick="CF_Quote('145628','Meskerem'); return false;">Quote</a></div><span id="co_145628"><p>wayooo, abesha neger no. dating is one thing marriage is another right,in the end we want to impart our values and pass on our culture to our kids,  but all this drama really tires me to read and hear this in the community,in dating u will come across everything until one day you finally see someone who gets YOU.</p>
<p> seems like men from every ager complaining about their women and its usually the complaint &#8220;women are golddiggers&#8221; this cant all be true can it? and the women sayin the guys are no good, are we lookin&#8217; at peoples hearts, are ew expecting people to cater to our every whim, thats not love. i think alot of things have to change in society most of all being HONEST about how we are and what we except from each other, Respect comes first always, and remmember, love is a noun and a verb.</p>
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