Anonymous Speak Series Continued: What am I learning? well, they come in different shapes and packages; and they all have different preferences in men….so men cant be bring the same old game plan and expect it to work with every woman? Will woman like me for my true self? Is being myself enough? Whatever happened to "I like you" and "you like me" so lets hang out? Ethiopian woman can't live without them can't understand them. There is a thin line between Kurategna and Guregna. well, enclosed specimen 2.

Specimen 2: Early Twenties,  very Single.

1.      What misconception do you think Ethiopian males have about woman?

ET women are to cook and clean for them…that they are all bad in bed…that they're all dramatic…that they're…that they're all stuck up… 

2.      What qualities do you find attractive in a man; other than physical?

Integrity, confidence, humility!!!!!!!!!!!! They three deadliest attractions

3.      What is the difference between Guregna and Kurategna man?

 One is an arrogant bastard who's a bullshitter and the other is confident man with reasons to be so

4.      How do you like to be asked out?

With confidence in a humorous and creative way. It could be direct and even that could be somewhat unique. Let me tell you the truth…the girl knows whether or not she's going to go out with the guy…so if she is…then it doesn't matter, but if she's not…that's when he's gotta get creative.

5.      What factors do you consider when you decide to start dating someone?

Does he have integrity…is he confidence…kind…and the usual…am I attracted to him, is he doing well in his life whether its school or career…finically…

6.      What emotions do you think support the creation of a stable relationship?

EMOTIONS:  will never create a stable relationship because emotion are like the weather…they change with season. Understanding creates a stable relationship along with honesty and trust and blablabla…but of course they're not emotions.  

7.      What characteristics in man (if any) make you not trust him?

Well if he's a liar or a bullshitter…if he's too reserved or private…